Let’s face it. Most of the time, making people cry is a bad thing. But sometimes, it feels pretty good. Like last night, when Mary Sue saw the scarf that I fixed for her DIL. There were tears, and it felt pretty good!
And today, my daughter and I packed up a box of food — a family meal with all the fixins — to take over to her friend’s house. Her friend’s mom was just diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer, with a very poor prognosis. Jena took the box over and spoke to the mom. Again, there were tears, and Jena felt good doing something special for her friend’s family.
Doing something special for others, even strangers, can make one feel pretty good. Knitters are known for their generosity and kindness, and I have tapped this trait in the past! I would like to take advantage of your generous spirits once again.
Many of you may remember the “Wrapped in Care” Program I posted about a couple of years ago. It is part of the Bereavement Program at United Hospital and Children’s Hospitals and Clinics – St. Paul. The program helps mothers deal with infant loss and the pain of leaving the hospital with empty arms. Handknit shawls are provided to these women for two reasons: to give them something tangible to wrap themselves in and also to provide a suitable backdrop for the last photos they will ever have of their infant.

Many of you knit shawls in the past — so many that Dee Moore (the chaplain and my contact) was overwhelmed! Well now they have decided to expand the program and model it after the “Care Carts” used in hospice settings. They will put together a cart with comforting items for use by the grieving family in their time of loss and mourning. One of the items Dee would like to be able to provide on each cart is a handknit shawl. Either the mother or other grieving family member would receive the shawl as a gift in remembrance of their lost child.
Just writing this makes me teary. I have not suffered infant loss, but the pain must be unbearable. If any of you are able, please knit a shawl for this worthwhile program. The details are in this flyer — which is aways available on the righthand side bar. Also available are a couple of very simple patterns. I also started a Ravelry group called Wrapped in Care which has been pretty dormant of late, but feel free to join, post your projects and suggestions, and ask questions. There is no urgency to this request as the need is ongoing.
We can’t make the pain go away, but we can let the person know that someone cares. And that feels pretty good.













































